How Was David a Man After God’s Own Heart?

            There are passages of scripture that we may ponder more than others.  One of those is the statement that David was a man after God’s own heart (1 Sam. 13:14; Acts 13:22).  We likely remember what David did in committing adultery with Bathsheba and how he had her husband, Uriah the Hittite, killed in battle to cover it up.  So, we may wonder at how this man is to be commended.  Fortunately for David, and for us, we are not judged by just one moment in time.  So how did David become a man after God’s own heart?

            First, David owned his sins.  When Nathan confronts David over his sin with Bathsheba and Uriah in 2 Samuel 12, David makes no excuses.  He simply admits that he had sinned (2 Sam. 12:13).  This is unlike Saul, who constantly blamed others for his shortcomings (1 Sam. 13:10-12; 1 Sam. 15:20-21).

            Second, David repented of his sins.  David’s deep remorse over what he had done can be seen in Psalm 51, which shows David’s feelings and his broken heart because he had transgressed the law of God.  David wrote, “For I acknowledge my transgressions, and my sin is always before me” (Psalm 51:3 NKJV).

            Third, David trusted in God to forgive him.  Nathan told David that God had forgiven him (2 Sam. 12:13b).  David trusted in that forgiveness and placed his faith in God.  Several places in the Psalms show us that David trusted in God (Psalm 16:1; 20:7; 31:14; 62:8).

            We should also be like David.  We need to own our sin, repent of what is wrong in our lives, and trust in God to forgive us, as He said He would.  If God has forgiven us, we don’t need to carry that guilt any longer in our lives.  Therefore, “let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us” (Heb. 12:1b).  While none of us are perfect, we can be people after God’s own heart if we do these three things.

Running Away From God

3633230337_6e4f9c4f0a_b     Imagine that you were told by your elders that you needed to travel to the Middle East and preach the gospel to members of a terrorist group that was responsible for terrible attacks upon your people. Would you be willing to go? Would you be eager to make that trip?

     In the days of Jeroboam II, king of Israel, God spoke to His prophet Jonah and instructed him that he was to travel to the great city of Nineveh (Jonah 1:1-2). Nineveh was one of three main cities in the Assyrian empire, and they were great enemies of Israel at the time. Additionally, they were Gentiles, and the Jews felt some exclusivity with regards to being God’s chosen people. Thus there was no love for the Assyrians within Israel, but animosity.

     We know that instead of traveling towards Nineveh that Jonah instead ran the other way, boarding a ship headed for Tarshish at the end of the known world at the time (Jonah 1:3). Jonah tried to run and hide from God, but God knew exactly where Jonah was, being that He is the creator of the land and the sea (Jonah 1:9). Jonah was not interested in the salvation of the Assyrians. After three days in the belly of a great fish, Jonah reluctantly went to Nineveh to preach repentance to the people.

     How is our attitude when it comes to preaching the gospel to others? Are we being selective in who we approach, because they are not like us? We should not allow our prejudice or bias keep us from sharing the truth of God’s word with anyone. God wishes for all men to come to the knowledge of the truth, to repent, and to be saved (1 Timothy 2:4). It is not up to us to limit the power of God. We are to be but simple messengers, carrying the story of the cross to this lost and dying world.

Return to Me

1280px-Minnesota_soldier_returns_home     We often rejoice in seeing loved ones return to one another after time away.  Perhaps there was some conflict or estrangement that kept them apart.  Perhaps some grudge that had to be overcome for them to be together again.  Maybe it is the return home of those who have been involved in military duty overseas.  Whatever the reason, there is joy in witnessing their reunion again after being apart.

     We should have the same joy in seeing those who have been estranged from the Lord being reunited to Him.  Often times those who have wandered away from God may feel that they cannot overcome their sinful desires, or that perhaps, God will not forgive them of their transgressions.  Neither of those are the case, however.  God through the writing of Paul makes it abundantly clear that they can be washed clean of their sins if they will repent and return (1 Cor. 6:9-11).

     Many times God was angry with Israel for not obeying His commands.  They refused to remove the inhabitants of Canaan and to destroy their idols, and instead served those foreign gods, offering their children as sacrifices (Psalm 106:34-39).  Therefore, they were given into the hands of their enemies and they were oppressed (Psalm 106:40-42).  Yet each time they cried out to the Lord for deliverance, each time they returned to the Lord, He heard the cries of His people and delivered them out of danger (Psalm 106:43-45).  God delivered them because He wants to be merciful.  If you have wandered away, God also wants to show you mercy and forgiveness.

     In order to get God’s mercy, we need to return to Him.  God promised Israel in times past, “but if you return to Me, and keep My commandments and do them, though some of you were cast out to the farthest part of the heavens, yet I will gather them from there, and bring them to the place which I have chosen as a dwelling for My name” (Nehemiah 1:9, NKJV).  God makes the same promise to us also.  He does not want any to perish, but for all to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9).  Jesus said that when we return, there is much rejoicing.  “I say to you that likewise there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine just persons who need no repentance” (Luke 15:7).

     God wants us to return to Him.  He wants us to be with Him for eternity.  He does not want any to be lost.  If you are willing to repent, He is faithful to forgive (1 John 1:9).  If you have wandered astray, won’t you return to Him now?

I Beg Your Pardon

     Richard Nixon is credited with once saying that if the President did it, it was not illegal.  However, after months of investigative journalism, congressional hearings, subpoenas, and contemplation of impeachment, he found out otherwise.  Nixon eventually resigned as President.  The only thing that kept him from suffering the same legal consequences as his cohorts, was a presidential pardon by his successor.

     This bit of history shows us that no one is above the law.  Without a pardon from above, we will all suffer the consequences of our actions.  We know that all have sin in their life.  The Bible says, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23 NKJV).  Furthermore, “The wages of sin is death” (Romans 6:23a).  Our natural state, without that pardon or forgiveness from above, is to be dead in our sins and in a lost condition.

     But thanks be to God that forgiveness is available!  We need to be willing to confess our sins rather than trying to cover them up (1 John 1:9).  We need to be willing to repent of those things that are contrary to God’s word (Luke 13:3; 2 Corinthians 7:10).  Having godly sorrow will lead us to a change of mind, a change of direction, which is what repentance is really about.  It is more than just being sorry that we were caught with our hand in the proverbial cookie jar.

     We need to seek out God’s pardon and forgiveness, because none of us is perfect.  We must throw ourselves on His mercy in order to have that eternal life we so desire.  We must be willing to change our lifestyle, to do our best to go our way and sin no more.  God offers us a pardon from our sins.  Are you willing to do your part to receive that forgiveness?

God’s Path to Salvation – Step Four – Repent

14130441997_a4c5a31a2d_o     The next step in God’s path to salvation is to repent of the things that we have done, or are doing, which are not in accordance with God’s word.  Jesus Himself taught that repentance was necessary when He taught His disciples about those Galileans who were killed by Pilate, or about those upon whom the tower of Siloam had fallen upon.  He told them that unless they repented they would all likewise perish (Luke 13:3, 5).

     Similarly, Paul stood upon Mars’ Hill in Athens and preached to those who were listening about the “unknown” God.  In that address, Paul stated that repentance was necessary for salvation.  Regarding their past ignorance of God’s will he told them, “Truly, these times of ignorance God overlooked, but now commands all men everywhere to repent, because He has appointed a day on which He will judge the world in righteousness by the Man whom He has ordained. He has given assurance of this to all by raising Him from the dead” (Acts 17:30-31).  Notice that God calls upon all men, all of mankind to repent.  Notice also that He calls upon all men everywhere.  That means that no one is exempt from the command to repent.

     Later, Paul would tell young Timothy that God wants all men to come to a knowledge of the truth and to be saved (1 Timothy 2:4)  Additionally, Peter explains that God is not willing for anyone to perish spiritually.  He wishes for all men, again that is all of mankind, to repent of what they have done wrong.  Peter writes, “The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance” (2 Peter 3:9).  Because it has been almost 2,000 years since the sacrificial death of Jesus upon the cross, men are likely to wonder about the second coming.  It is God who is holding off on the end of the world, because He does not want anyone to perish.  He wants all men everywhere to come to repentance and be obedient to His will.

     Therefore, we need to repent of our sins in order to lay hold of eternal life, but just what is involved in that repentance?  Is it just saying that I am sorry for what I have done?  Is it just saying that I am sorry that I got caught doing something wrong, or is there more to it than that?  We must not be misled into thinking that repentance is just a feeling of momentary sorrow with no change in our actions.  There is much more to repentance than just that feeling of sorrow.  Repentance means that we make a change in our life.  We do not just feel sorry for what we have done, but if we are sinning against God then we change our lifestyle to reflect His wishes, His commands, His will.  Paul explains this difference in writing to the church at Corinth:

Now I rejoice, not that you were made sorry, but that your sorrow led to repentance. For you were made sorry in a godly manner, that you might suffer loss from us in nothing.  For godly sorrow produces repentance leading to salvation, not to be regretted; but the sorrow of the world produces death.  For observe this very thing, that you sorrowed in a godly manner: What diligence it produced in you, what clearing of yourselves, what indignation, what fear, what vehement desire, what zeal, what vindication! In all things you proved yourselves to be clear in this matter (2 Corinthians 7:9-11)

Notice that Paul is not rejoicing in their sorrow, but in the fact that their godly sorrow produced repentance, a change of direction.

     It is our godly sorrow that will lead us to repentance.  Our repentance, our change of mind, our change of direction will then lead us to God and His salvation.  It is not like the sorrow of the world whereby we might just be sorry that we were caught in wrongdoing.  Let us all put our sins behind us, and throw off that weight so that we may run our race unencumbered by sin (Hebrews 12:1).  Let us learn to repent of what we do that does not match God’s will, so that we can have that hope of eternal salvation when our life here is done!

Love Without Labels

Couple_01     This week we are being told through a public service announcement that love has no labels.  That sounds pleasant, does it not?  Who could disagree that love has no labels?  However, just what is meant by this announcement?  What is being cast upon us is yet another attempt to show that homosexuality is normal and okay.

In an unrelated story, Dr. Ben Carson stated his belief that people choose to be homosexuals.  They are not born that way.  Very shortly after answering a question that exposed his belief, Carson took it back.  He back peddled and tried to explain his answer in a way that would be more acceptable to those of a gay persuasion.  The real question is, are these events really unrelated?

There is and has been a tremendous push in our country to justify, normalize, and force everyone to accept homosexuality as a viable, wholesome, alternative lifestyle.  Anyone who disagrees is instantly labeled as homophobic, hateful, or a bigot.  Let us just take a moment to think about the tactics from a logical standpoint for a moment.

Those of us who disagree with said lifestyle, are no longer allowed to express our opinion without fear of retribution, harassment, loss of employment (if employed within the media), and other labeling by the crowd that is telling us that love has no labels.  It cannot be about tolerance, for tolerance would demand that I can express my opinion as equally as they can theirs.  It is all about acceptance.  We are being forced to accept their opinion and say nothing about it.

I do not say this to be mean spirited, unloving, or otherwise prejudiced against a segment of society.  I merely mean to express another viewpoint with regards to this issue, and that is the viewpoint that God has written for our learning in the Bible.  By expressing what the Bible has to say about the issue, it is not my intention to “force my religion” down anyone’s throat.  God does not operate that way.  He merely tells us what is right, what is righteous, what is wholesome, and what is not.  Then it is up to us to decide if we will follow Him, or go our own way.  It is our choice, Dr. Carson.

Nowhere does God explain this better than in Paul’s letter to the Romans.  “For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness, because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them” (Romans 1:18-19 NKJV).  When mankind suppresses the truth, because they do not like it, that is called unrighteous and ungodly.  The creation of man itself is proof that there is a God.  There is no way that the complicated systems that exist within human life could have come about by chance.  Thus the evidence is within man, such that we are without excuse if we fail to believe that there is a God (Romans 1:20).

However, there are those who have not retained God in their knowledge.  They have made a conscious choice to walk away from God.  They do not glorify Him, nor are they thankful.  Instead, they profess to be wise when really they are being foolish for ignoring God (Romans 1:21-22).  Because they have given up on God and walked away from Him, He will also give them up.  They will not be considered to be His children anymore, while they are acting disobedient.

Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves. . . For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature.  Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due (Romans 1:24, 26-7).

Notice what God calls it when women exchange the natural use of their body to be with other women.  Notice what God says about men who burn in their lust for other men.  He says that they dishonor their bodies.  He calls their passions vile.  He says that their actions are shameful and deserving the penalty of their error.  It sounds like God has put “labels” on their “love.”

The real issue is a misunderstanding of love.  Men are to have brotherly love for one another.  This is the Greek word philos.  It is not the same as the love between a man and his wife that includes the sexual relationship.  This kind of love is eros (where we get the word erotic from).  Mankind has blurred the lines between the kind of love that we are to show toward one another, and the kind of love that is reserved for a married man and his wife.  So when people say, “well what is wrong with loving one another,” they are misunderstanding the difference between brotherly love and lust.

So why make such a big deal about this issue?  What harm is there in accepting what God says is vile, ungodly, unrighteous, and against nature?  Well, just notice what Paul goes on to write at the end of Romans 1:

(They) being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers, backbiters, haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful; who, knowing the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are deserving of death, not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them (Romans 1:29-32).

Not only does God disapprove of the homosexual lifestyle, His judgment is also going to be against those who approve of their behavior.  God says if you are okay with things that He calls evil, then you are deserving of spiritual death just the same as those who are practicing such.  That looks like God is placing many labels on their “love,” and none of those labels are good.

One last point with regards to this issue needs to be made.  The argument that homosexuals are that way because that is how God made them cannot be true if the Bible is to be believed.  Notice that God states the penalty for those who practice such behavior quite clearly in Romans 1.  If God were to make people that way, with that persuasion, then He would be making people to sin and be lost.  That is not God’s nature.  God does not tempt us to do evil.  We are tempted when we are led away by our own desires.  That desire then leads us to sin.  It is our own doing (James 1:13-15).  Indeed, God does not desire that anyone be lost.  He wants for all men to come to a knowledge of the truth (1 Timothy 2:4), and then to repent and follow Him (2 Peter 3:9).  People choose to practice what they practice.  They are not made to sin by God without a choice.

Furthermore, notice what Paul writes to the church in Corinth:

Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.  And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God (1 Corinthians 6:9-11 emphasis added).

There were some who were in the church in Corinth who had formerly been homosexuals.  Paul says that they were washed, they were changed, they made a conscious decision to follow God rather than their own lusts.

There is no need to be lost in sin when we can repent, change our sinful lifestyle, and become a child of God again.  This not only applies to the sin of homosexuality, but with any and all sin.  God does not state that one sin is any worse than any other, and neither should we.  Let us only apply the labels that God applies, and strive to walk in His ways each day.

Following the Pack

end_a_armstrong_d1_600x400     In a recent interview, Lance Armstrong has reiterated that he would cheat again if he had a chance to do it all over.  Lance Armstrong was revered as one of the greatest cyclists ever.  He won seven consecutive Tour de France titles from 1999 to 2005.  However, all the while Lance was winning those titles; he was also guilty of taking performance enhancing drugs (PEDs).

     Once it became known that Armstrong had been doping, his titles were stripped from him.  After years of denials that he was taking PEDs, he finally came clean in 2013 and admitted to the doping during his illustrious career.  He states in his recent interview that he would do it again to be competitive, because everyone was doing it.  His only regret is that he was put in a place where he had to make the decision to take PEDs, not that he actually gave in and doped to improve his performance.

     So, Lance would make the decision to run with the pack again.  Do you ever remember your mother asking you if you were going to jump off of the bridge just because everyone else was doing it?  Is that a legitimate excuse?  Lance Armstrong’s philosophy reeks of situational ethics.

     What do the words of Scripture have to say about situational ethics?  Is there ever a right time to do a wrong thing?  Paul writes, “Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap.  For he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life.  And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart” (Galatians 6:7-9 NKJV).  Armstrong has allowed bad company to influence him to also do that which is wrong (1 Corinthians 15:33).  He has given in to running with the pack, rather than standing for what is right and good (competing according to the rules).  In his constant lying about his drug use, he has not let his yes be yes and his no, no (Matthew 5:37; James 5:12).

     Furthermore, James says, “Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin” (James 4:17).  Lance knew what he was doing was wrong.  He circumvented the rules to gain an advantage.  Many might say they understand.  Who wants to work in a bicycle shop in Plano, Texas when they can be on top of the world?  The problem is that if we do that which is wrong, and say that we would do the same thing again, we show no repentance for our sins.  It does not matter if everyone else is doing it.  Jesus said there was a broad and easy road, that many were traveling, and that this road leads to destruction (Matthew 7:13-14).

     God wants us to follow Him, not the pack.  He wants for all men to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9).  There is never a right time to do a wrong thing.  Ethics are not situational.  Truth is absolute.  Cheating and lying are always wrong.  Will we be like Lance, and do whatever it takes to achieve fame and fortune in this life, only to lose our own souls (Matthew 16:26)?  Or will we be like Jesus and keep our focus on doing right so we can join Him for eternity, even if we have to struggle in a bicycle shop in the meantime?  Who will you follow?